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You are in a monogamous relationship if you and your boyfriend don’t have other sex-partners. If both of you have been tested for HIV and STIs and all the results are negative, you can choose to have sex without a condom. This also applies to those who are undetectable and STI free. 

It is a possibility that your monogamous relationship can change over time. So always discuss your current situation.

We recommend you both to get tested for HIV and STIs at your doctor, the STI clinic of the GGD or at Man tot Man Testlab. Find more information about it here.

You are in a monogamous relationship, so you and your boyfriend don’t have other sex-partners. 

Get yourself vaccinated against Hepatitis A & B. These are very serious infectious viruses which are easy to prevent by vaccination.

By using a condom you are always in charge of your own protection without depending on anyone else.

Undetectable = Untransmittable.
If you have HIV and are on effective treatment and achieved an undetectable viral load for 6 months it cannot be passed on.

PrEP can give you extra protection from getting HIV. It is a pill you take daily or just before / after sex and can lower the risk of getting HIV by over 90%. 

PEP is a last resort HIV prevention strategy that can be used after being exposed to the virus to reduce the risk of becoming infected. 

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